“AMEN SONGS”: Chayim Sheli (Eden Ben Zaken)

“Chayim Sheli,” meaning “My Life,” by Eden Ben Zaken, is a deeply moving reflection on love, devotion, and the profound impact one person can have on another. The lyrics, “Chayim sheli, atah hayita li” (“My life, you were for me”), express a heartfelt recognition of the transformative power of love and commitment. This song aligns beautifully with our theme, “Amen – Be a Blessing,” as it reminds us that to truly love someone is to be a blessing in their life. It challenges us to consider how our relationships—through acts of kindness, support, and unwavering presence—can serve as a source of strength and blessing to others. The melody, familiar to many as the tune used for “L’cha Dodi” in some congregations, adds to the song’s emotional depth and communal resonance.

This message is closely connected to Parashat Tetzaveh, which focuses on the priestly garments and the sacred duties of the Kohanim. Just as the priests were called to serve with devotion and bring spiritual light to the people, “Chayim Sheli” highlights the personal dedication and selflessness that define true love. The priests’ role was not simply about ritual; it was about being a constant presence, a source of spiritual sustenance and connection for the entire nation. In much the same way, the song reminds us that through love, care, and dedication, we can serve those around us and bring blessings into their lives.

Both the parasha and the song teach that true service—whether to God, community, or loved ones—requires commitment and heart. The garments worn by the priests symbolized their role in uplifting the people, just as our daily acts of love and devotion, no matter how small, serve to uplift those in our lives. Singing “Chayim Sheli” encourages us to reflect on the relationships that define us and to see them as opportunities to bless and be blessed.

As we engage with Parashat Tetzaveh, “Chayim Sheli” reminds us that our greatest contributions are often found in the quiet moments of dedication and love. Just as the priests served with humility and purpose, we too can embody the theme of blessing by nurturing those around us with compassion, patience, and unwavering support.